Sunday, March 31, 2013

Update March 31st 2013

Dear Family, Friends,

Brenda has the colostomy completed on Wednesday of last week.  Her bowel movement should be moving food through the colostomy opening by now, but not much significant soft solid has been happening.  Please pray that thing should move out soon  or it could be an urgent thing.

Thank you for your prayer,

Love, 

David.

Update March 30th 2013

Dear Family and Friends,

Thank you for your prayers.  I had a rough morning with cramping, but no IV's!  The doctor prescribed walking.  We walked about two hours in the morning and came back for lunch. 

Oscar, the volunteer activity driver, was busy figuring out how many people wanted to go to Rosarita.  Nobody had signed up yet, so Liz took to serious recruiting.  Soon she had more people then one van could hold.  Oscar recommended they could sit on laps!  It's easy to fit twenty people in an eight passenger van!  Then, he started trying to hurry them along with their lunch because he was supposed to leave at one and they were still eating!  We all started accusing him of being an American disguised as a Mexican!  This is Mexico and we have all learned about Mexican time!!!  To keep from totally blowing his cover, his parting shot was "Be at the van by 1:15 or I'll wait for you!" 

We didn't go with them.  We took another walk around town and back down to the beach.  David walked, I felt like the Tigger that lost his bounces, I shuffled.  The beach swarmed with people due to the holiday.  Venders, with carts of mango and coconuts and other popular snacks weaved their way through the crowd.  Lots of little children flew kites, played catch, and dashed through the shallow waves.  One kid made a sand sculpture mermaid.  He did a pretty good job, too. 

As soon as we got back from our afternoon walk, Edgar and Salvador, two nurses, insisted I needed one more IV catheter for antibiotics and stomach protector. My veins are very difficult to find, especially since most of them run and hide when they see the nurses coming and the rest of them are trying to recover from ill usage.  They took two tries, and got it started in the crook of my right arm.  Handy!!! The antibiotic only took thirty minutes this time, but I had to wait till eight to get the stomach protector.  The cramps returned and my arm ached, so I skipped supper.  Four hours of pain later, I got the stomach protector and I begged some pain medicine!  Then they took the catheter out!!!  Life is good again! 

We continue the neutraceuticals, supplements at high dosages, and start the low dose chemo therapy when we get home.  I hope the cramping goes away soon!  The doctor said one week more.  I'm praying he's over estimating!!!.  The walking does help, though!

Looking forward to being home Monday!

Love,

Brenda

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Update March 29th 2013

Dear Friends and Family,

Today, I had my last detox and got to skip the coffee fun.  I am on antibiotics for the surgery and that took two and a half hours this morning.  It is only supposed to take one hour, but I think it was on Mexico time!!!  Then the mineral drip, took close to four hours.  David had to bring me lunch in the treatment room.  My friend, Rhonda, put on the movie The Help.  That did make the time go faster. 

After I finished David and I went for a walk around the block and down to the beach.  We didn't go down to the boardwalk but we stayed on top and watched the music show on the stage below.  A little Mexican boy, maybe five or six, sang three different Spanish songs.  He wore a little cowboy outfit with a colorful sombrero and danced around the stage as he sang.  

The weather has turned colder and very breezy.  I got cold and even the walk back didn't warm me up.  Liz organized a Good Friday Service for after supper.  The patients took part.  One played the keyboard and we sang.  Another read scripture and then they had Communion.  I had to leave early due to exhaustion and discomfort.  I think my stamina ran away from me.  My digestive tract is getting itself back into motion after the surgery and sometimes the effect isn't too comfortable.  Well, actually not much is comfortable, lately.  This is my last treatment day, so I'm hoping to dispense with the IV soon!  That will help one discomfort!  I don't know how long I have to have antibiotic IV's, and stomach protectant.  They did dispense with the pills since surgery.  I get to start those again when I get home. Goody!!!  Here comes Pac Man!!!

Sabbath is here, so I should feel better, soon.  Happy Sabbath!!!  Salvador just came with the stomach protectant but the IV catheter was bad, probably why it was hurting!  So he took it out!  I get a new one in the morning, but tonight will be sans catheter!!!  Or protectant!  Edgar brought me a heating pad for my arm.  Maybe it will help my tummy, too.  Liz came and prayed for me.  I'm feeling better, already!  Praying you all have a wonderful Sabbath.  

Love & Prayers,

Brenda

Update March 29th 2013

Dear Family, Friends,

Below is some of Brenda wrote last night to answer a question that was asked.  I did some editing to it.  

David.

Dear---------,

No, they didn't remove the tumor.  If they remove it now the colostomy would be permanent.  We are trying to avoid that.  The hope is that with treatment the tumor will shrink enough to remove more conservatively.  Better yet that the tumor will resolve itself and move out!  My friend says we want it to pack its bags and walk out the door!  I want it to be so sick of green juice and green veges that it can't see to stay!  (A little tumor humor) I had my last ozone therapy today and tomorrow will be detox day.  Then I'm done except for recovering from surgery. So far that is going pretty smoothly.  I walked outside to a little restaurant for lunch and did the stairs instead of the elevators.  I'm still pretty sore and laughing hurts!  The colostomy is taking some getting used to.  It makes some pretty umm interesting noises.  Kind of embarrassing but nothing I can do about it!  So I'm learning to accept that which I cannot change.  Which seems to be quite a lot lately!  Life is interesting.  Time to evict that tumor for good!!!!!!!

-------------------------. Praise the Lord.  The nutritional supplements help a lot and the diet of fresh vegetables helps, too.  Here they give us papaya every morning.  It is good for cancer fighting.  We also eat a lot of salad and avocados.  They also fix a cactus that is supposed to be a good cancer fighting food.  It tastes great too.  Asparagus is also good.  They want us to avoid peas, corn and potatoes.  They are very high on the glycemic index.   They are also my three favorite foods!  Sigh!!! Time to find new favorites I guess! 

We hope to be home Monday.  I can hardly wait.  David has worked really hard these last few days getting all the supplements together for us as well as our friends that were having trouble.  So, they gave him a new name.  Oasis of Dope.  He's the local drug guy!

Looking forward to getting home,  and we will be back in 5/5 for 1 week.   Thank you for your prayers.

Love,

Brenda

Update March 27th 2013

Dear Family and Friends,

Thank you for all your prayers for us.  Yesterday, they did the surgery for the colostomy and today they fitted me up with a handy bag.  This procedure will help me in a number of ways.  First, it removes the possibility of a complete blockage of the colon, which would put me in an emergency situation.  Second, it means I can eat more solid food.  I have been living on juices and smoothies for a couple of months.  Third, it reduces the stress and pressure on the tumor.  Fourth, it will make treating the tumor easier.  Some of the treatments that I am receiving initially cause swelling and inflammation.  Since the area is not in function any more, the discomfort from treatment will be reduced.  So this surgery is one small step on the road to recovery. 
  Yesterday, I was flat on my back all day.  It reminded me of being in the hospital!  Today, after they removed the bandages and attached the bag, I got up and walked to the treatment room to hear Dr. Contreras doing the question and answer session.  I felt a bit dizzy and unsteady on my feet but overall not bad.  It just felt so good to be with everyone and feel human again.  I made it to the lunch room for a little asparagus soup and avocados.  Yummy!!!  The pain medication makes me feel dizzy and stuffy headed.  I'm hoping to dispense with it soon.  I told David I want to go run on the beach but I think that will have to wait for tomorrow, when perhaps, my head will stop spinning!  I will probably settle for walking, as they don't want me to over do it!  
   We are in the process of getting all the medications and supplements lined up for treatment at home.  I will get started taking low dose chemotherapy next week.  Two weeks on and one week break.  We had to change our return flight to Monday, instead of tomorrow, due to the surgery. The rest of our group, that started three weeks ago, are going home tomorrow.  It's kind of busy around here as they are getting ready to go home.  David is collecting names and contact information so that we can keep in touch!  Some of us are scheduled to return at the same time, in four weeks.  That will be the 50th anniversary of Oasis of Hope Hospital!  I am really looking forward to getting home.  
Time for family worship.  I love the computer as it lets me hear and see my family at home!
I will write more later.

I love you all and treasure your prayers,

Love,
Brenda 

Update March 24th 2013


3/23

Full treatment day today, Brenda seemed to to better today.  After treatment, we spend some time at the beach soaking up the sun.  Brenda feel cold and want to be in the sun.  I am doing OK with God's help.
Happy Sabbath.

David.

3/24

We have church today.  Dr. Contreras have the service today.  Brenda has some treatment today.  Seemed to be OK, but tired.

Please prayer for speedy healing after surgery, and no pain at the rectum area afterward, and the tumors reduce in size, and a miracle healing, and strength and courage for Brenda.

Thank for your prayers, we are praying for you all also.

Love you all.

David, Brenda. 

Update March 22nd 2013

Dear Friends,

3 PM

We talked to the three doctors here a couple days ago.  They were concerned that the pain management would slow or hamper treatment.  Their recommendation was to have the surgery to redirect the colon, colonostomy.  That way, we can concentrate on reducing the tumor so it can possibly be removed and they could reconnect the colon.  Today we talked to Dr. Contreras about doing that on Tuesday.  After I heal from surgery, I will start on integrative chemo therapy to hit the tumor and protect the rest of me.  I'm praying the tumor will dissolve and go away!  I don't know God's plan but He does!  I will trust Him.  That is where we are right now.  We may have to come home a little later then we had planned.  Today is a detox day.  That means the coffee in the morning and evening, and a mineral drip IV that takes 4-5 hours!  I think my veins are getting tired.  The IV's are uncomfortable.  It cuts down on my typing or writing.  Need to train my left hand better, I guess!

5 PM

Thank you for your prayers,  I haven't updated for a while since my arm has been over occupied with IV's in uncomfortable places.   I am currently IV free for a little while so will try to write before they stick me again!  Got to enjoy every moment of pain free living!!!!!

Update March 20th 2013


Hi family, and friends,

Brenda arm is in some discomfort with the IV in place so she has not type much update.  So below is from 3/17.  Some of you may not read 3/17 update.

Thank you for your prayers.  Yesterday, I was really struggling with the pain.  The treatment causes the immune system to really activate, which in turn causes inflammation.  That is both good and bad.  Today, the doctor kind of scolded me for trying to tough it out.  He gave me some pain medication and anti-inflammatory.  Now, I am a much happier camper.  I'm really looking forward to a good nights sleep! The doctors here are really nice and so are the nurses and staff.  This place has the feel of a cross between a dormitory/school/hospital.  It is very relaxed with a lot of camaraderie among the patients.  We are all in this together so there is an element of fun and mutual encouragement.  The weekends are a bit more relaxed as far as treatment goes so we get a little break tomorrow.  The nurses are running out of veins to poke.  We need to heal a little bit!  

Take care and thank you for your prayers.  


Yesterday the doctors talk to us and  they will try to reduce the pain med for the treatment to be more effective and I will blend her food and more green juice to reduce pressure on the site.  Brenda did not take any pain med last night.  I think she is Ok.  Pray for her that the pain will go down more , and to do well today.  Please pray for all patients here also.


Thank you.  We are so bless with you all, thinking and praying for you all.

Love,

David, Brenda. (3/20)

Short Update Sabbath the 16th

Happy Sabbath,

Please pray that pain manageable for Brenda, (pain result from the tumor Being attack by the enhance immune system, and medication).  The doctor will give her some pain med.

David.  

Update March 13th 2013

Dear friends,

I didn't write yesterday because I was too tired.  A fellow cancer friend came to our room and David gave her a back and foot rub.  She stayed and talked a while.  Yesterday was our first day of B-17/Vitamin C therapy.  The Vitamin C really makes us tired.  We also had our blood ozonated and treated with UV light.  Thomas takes about a quart of blood out of us and treates it and returns it to us clean. Its kind of like radiation treatment just for blood.  We didn't have it today but tomorrow they will do it again.
The hospital has a community treatment room with lounge chairs all around the outside wall.  While we are hooked up to IVs in the morning, they have a worship service and sing scripture songs and hymns.  It is really beautiful.  They also have a teaching time while we are captive there.  Yesterday, we had a talk about the importance of breathing and moving, to oxygenate our blood and get our lymph moving.  Today, we had a question and answer period with the doctor. The rest of the time, we visit and encourage one another.  We are like a little family in this home away from home.  It doesn't feel like a 'hospital' even though some of us are very ill.  I think I am probably the most well of all the patients.  Trish, our friend who visited last night, has breast cancer and her arm is so swollen she can hardly move it.  She missed the breathing/moving lecture so we told her about it last night.  This morning, she was trying to do a little break dancing.  She's funny.  Cancer is no laughing matter but as long as you can laugh it is easier to bear!!  Tomorrow, we have Laughter Therapy, officially, but these guys tell some pretty funny stories in between times, too!
We went for a walk at the beach this evening and saw some whales, I think.  They were just outside the breaker line.  Pretty cool.  Well I need to go get my BP and pulse checked so I can go to bed.  We sometimes have to hunt the nurses down.  This is a different kind of hospital, alright!



Thank you for your prayers,
Brenda

Update March 11th 2013

Dear Friends,

I just thought I would share the low down of my experience here a Oasis of Hope.  You may share with whomever you feel would be interested.  Though the hospital is located in town, the streets are very quiet at night.  I think the people actually sleep!  I slept pretty good with the exception of needing to get up for the bathroom.  The bath is located right beside the bed so it is a short jump to the bathroom.  This morning, however, when I went to take a shower it took me awhile to figure out that the cold was hot and the hot, cold.  I thought for a while that there was no hot!  This is Mexico after all!!! Fortunately, I figured it out and got a hot shower.  After the shower, nurse Judy came in and drew my blood for lab work.  She did a very good job and I hardly felt the needle. Nice.  
For breakfast they had a large plate of papaya and musk melon, oatmeal, beans, and an asparagus dish.  I just had fruit.  After breakfast they have a worship service especially for the companions.  I went too, since I didn't know I had anything else to do. The chapel has a wall sized fountain with a pool and a statue depicting the man washing the clay from his eyes in the pool.  Daniel Contreras Kennedy, the grandson of the founder of the clinic, had the worship service.  He sang some songs in Spanish and translated for us.  Then he led a wonderful discussion on the importance of faith in healing and how Jesus sometimes healed people who didn't have any faith at all.  Jesus had the faith!  We also talked about how God is both Holy and Love.  He used the illustration that God's Holiness is like an apple tree and His love is like the apple on the tree.  
After the worship I discovered Nurse Gigi had plans for me.  Oh yes, a coffee enema!  WOW!  That definitely was an experience!  I guess it gets repeated three more times before we are finished here!  Oh fun!  Following the colonic, which is part of the detoxification protocol, we went to the treatment room.  Here all the patients are gathered with their assigned IV's and Daniel conducted a worship service for the patients.  He uses a lot of humor in his talks and tells funny stories.  It really takes your mind off the discomfort of the IV drip.  He told about some kids who came for treatments and used the IV poles as skate boards up and down the hall.  He told about one patient who rigged up a special carrier to carry his IV down to the beach.  (The poles don't roll well in the sand!)  Unfortunately, he tripped on the stairs going down to the beach and broke his leg!  That was the only  time the hospital had to do an emergency rescue!  
Halfway through Daniels talk we had to go out to talk to the doctor.  These doctors are very special. You can tell them what you are doing at home and they don't act like you lost your marbles!  They actually understand why you are trying to boost your immune system.  That understanding is so refreshing!  We went back to the treatment room and listened to the rest of Daniels presentation. Then we stayed to fellowship with the Sabbath keeping couple we met last night.
At noon, I took my good buddy, Peter Pole, with us to lunch.  (The IV drip takes about 3 hours)  The beautiful sunshine enticed us to eat outside.  A lovely way to get the Vitamin D3 for the day!  After a short rest after lunch, to finish the drip,  we took an hour walk down the street and to the beach.  There are a lot of little shops along the beach front and most of them are selling green coconuts.  A lot of dogs lounge around on the sidewalk, too, but they are very mannerly and don't bother people walking by.  
When we got back we went to supper a little early to get some green drink down before taking solid food.  There menu varies very little.  Always they have a nice big salad.  Then a tray of shredded fresh beets, carrots, cabbage, onions, radishes and cucumbers.  They also have a couple hot or semi-hot dishes.  Tonight it was a vegetable dish with chicken and a rice and broccoli dish.  For us, the food tastes great, but one of our friends is having a really hard time with all the vegetables.  So please pray especially for Andy, that his tastes will change and he can stomach the food.  After supper and a short walk and worship, we are back in our room and I am waiting for Nurse Gigi again.  Oh joy!  She is really sweet, but....... (ya, pun intended. Ya gotta laugh sometimes!)

Thinking of you all and praying for you, too.

Love, 
Brenda and David (he's looking for Gigi!)